The child begins to form his personality from a young age, and children go through stages of formation and preparation for the emotional and psychological aspect since his inception, and all of these factors play a major role in forming his emotional health, and a lot of what happens to the child since childhood, whether negative or positive affects the formation of the child’s personality It is necessary to work on raising the child in a healthy, stable, calm and rational environment for good, so that children and psychologically stable generations can grow up in the society surrounding us. Parents must be keen to follow instructions, ideas and behaviors to protect children and their emotional and psychological health, especially in childhood, because it is the basis that will continue for the rest of their life.
Childhood is characterized by the child's great comprehension and understanding of everything that is going on around him. It is through which he throws the personal seeds that are harvested upon reaching the age of majority and starting to confront society. We must strengthen the seeds with concern and provide them with skills, ideas and habits of a positive nature for the ability to live a normal life later on.
Among the ideas that should be followed to help parents support their children from a young age: ---
More attention... Many fathers and also mothers get involved in life tasks and get distracted from their children, but the most important thing is to provide their children with more supportive attention to contain them and not feel lonely.
Listening... Children must listen and sit with them to hear what is going on in their thoughts and know their needs and what they are facing, and must listen deeply, carefully and with interest.
Expressing feelings... There must be mutual feelings, expressed between each of the children and their parents, and giving the children the opportunity to express and know the ways of expressing them to contain their feelings through confrontational life situations, from negative and positive feelings (such as fear - happiness - need - comfort). Including what happens while the child sleeps, including what happens at family gatherings, and some of them happen when meeting other children. Each of these feelings varies with different situations, so it is necessary to follow up and contain them and direct the child to the right and wrong ones.The
Need...Parents must attract their children to how much they need them always so that they are the first help and the first reference to them since childhood.
Respect... Parents should direct children to a culture of respect, whether inside the home between the family or outside the home, so that the child grows with principles and ideas together and carries a personality that has the ability to face the challenges of society and the circumstances facing us and surrounding us.
The feelings of our children are our responsibility, We have to raise our children and develop their feelings with sound behaviors and morals.