It’s a blessing to have siblings, they’re the first friends we make in this life. We may fight a lot, but deep down we all know that we love each other. Yet, sometimes, fights don’t end peacefully leaving a scar in our relationship with our siblings, so how to fix that? And how to have a good relationship with your sibling?
Don’t compare yourself to your siblings . We’re special on our own way, just like your sibling do something special so do you. And those around you celebrate this achievement of yours, like that of your siblings.
Take turns being the center of attention . You can't have all the attention, all the time. Try not to be jealous of your siblings when they're getting a lot of attention.
Talk about your relationship .Talk to your sibling about your relationship, let them know that you are willing to put in the effort.Let go of the past in case they did something bad to you and move on so you can have a happy relationship.
Be supportive of your sibling .Life can be hard on everyone like a serious illness, job loss or divorce.It will mean a lot to your siblings to show your support in such tough situations.
Stay in touch.Try to stay in touch with your siblings on daily basis. Make communication a priority so you know what’s going on in their life .
Celebrate the special moments.Make sure to be there to celebrate the special moments with your siblings.You will make precious memories as you do.Along with these big moments, celebrate the little ones such as their first child turning two months.
To sum up, our siblings are our backbones when needed and we should always work on tightening our relationships with them.